Took our students to winter camp last month, great weekend but it reminded me of a story. In 2010 we also took our students to winter camp, and it is 2010 that our story takes place. (Insert blurry video transition here)
As a single man I always have my eyes open for available single ladies. Camp last year was no different. In the midst of enjoying the weekend with our students I noticed something, someone. It was this pretty little lass who was helping with camp program.
That week I happened to know some of the other people doing program. I knew that they were from around where I live, so maybe she was too.
In the skits this someone played an elf so we shall call her “the elf.”
During the weekend I tried to find a moment to chat with the elf. Sadly the weekend came and went and no matter how hard I looked I could never find her. In this kind of circumstance Chris usually gives up because, what else is there to do?
This is where a simple conversation gave me a little motivation. Driving home Nate, some students, and I where talking about how he met his wife. It is a funny story, you should ask him sometime, but the moral was that girls like boldness.
This story inspired me. Usually in a circumstance where I didn’t talk to a girl, and have no way to communicate with her I leave it alone. But not this time, I was going to be bold.
So, that week I told my boys (aka Ben, Matt, and Travis) my story and we began to search facebook for this girl that I sort of had a partial name for. After a while, and a feeling of being a real creeper, we found the elf. I sent a friend request and that night it was accepted. Then began the process of deciding what to write.
It had to acknowledge the creepy factor yet still make a good case for the elf to have coffee with me.
After about an hour of writing four sentences I sent the message and waited. Hearing back would be a milestone in itself but if I did hear back I expected to meet the she elf sometime after the new year.
That night I continued to casually check facebook and very much to my surprise the elf had responded and she was available to meet the next day. What? So soon? Oh Crap!
The plans were made and the meeting was on. One of the best parts was that Matt Casey didn’t believe this would ever happen and said if I did meet her he would pay for coffee. I really had nothing to lose in my elf encounter.
The time came and the meeting happened. I was nervous and maybe a little awkward but I still thought it went well. This is where I did a real good job of closing the deal. We said goodbye inside starbucks and were going our separate ways when I had this conversation with myself…
Chris 1 “well that was fun”
Chris 2 “yea lets do that again”
Chris 1 “lets facebook her and tell her we had a good time”
Chris 2 “NO! Be bold, go up to her and plan something now!”
Chris 1 “Ok, ok boldness!”
I caught up to her before she left and told her I enjoyed our conversation lets do it again. She agreed and said we will be in touch.
This is where I really failed. I am used to dating girls that I already have their number. I have never actually had to ask a girl for her number. So I didn’t even think to get those elf digets. I am stupid, I know, sorry.
After I got home I realized my mistake and again facebook’d her saying nice things and that I look forward to our next meeting.
Sadly this is where the story ends very much anticlimactic. I never heard back from the elf but in the end I got a good story of yet another interesting adventure of Chris Hunt.
Oh yea and free coffee.